Another big problem we are seeing right now is alot of people think you're supposed to have/be the opposite of these things:

 For example they seem to think letting their emotions flare is strength. And they usually do this in situations that are not actually serious( shows wrong thought). And in the end of all this even if they get what they want or their way. They still lost their sh!t, are still upset, and they delayed how long it took them to get what they wanted. And that does NOT show power.