When people get too stressed they don't slow down to think. And tend to do and say things without really thinking, which usually leads to an increase in the mistakes they make. Therefore leading to more stress, which leads to even less clear thinking. When this cycle continues over long periods of time(months, years) people begin to believe that's how they should be thinking. And the quality of their lives sometimes begins to slowly spiral downwards in many ways. They know some things are getting worse for them, but they sadly don't realize it's because of the way they are thinking. They want to believe their logic is correct since they've been getting through life using their logic at that point.

 This is why it's important to not get too upset over things that barely matter or don't matter. Because you could be using that focus and energy on things that are actually important to you.

Please think before you talk. And that goes for everybody.

Sometimes people are pretenders and they are oblivious to the fact.

Realistically these days...

 You should expect dumb people to be dumb for a long time, sometimes a REALLY long time. And honestly that's my personal experience for myself when I was younger. At times I was just literally a dumb ass and knew it, but I couldn't really break the spell lol. And then later on I witnessed or was involved with people like this, sometimes my own family members. And it took sometimes 8yrs for some of them to realize even the most basic, but important things. I don't know what causes this, but sometimes it's just how long it's going to take.

 My best advice is to avoid people like this unless you NEED to talk to them.